The Performer

You bring a quality of aliveness into every space you enter that people feel before they can explain it. Your joy is not a performance. It is how you actually experience a world you find genuinely worth being in. The part that is harder to say is that you feel everything else just as intensely. You just protect that part more carefully.

Someone who makes everyone feel like the most important person in the room and sometimes wonders if anyone would notice if they stopped.

You're drawn to people who match your presence. Fully there, genuinely warm, not afraid of joy. What you want most is someone who sees the full depth underneath the brightness and doesn't flinch at either. What you get most often are people who love the surface and are unprepared for everything below it.

Your warmth is genuine but it is also armour. When you are in pain, you generate more warmth, not less. The people closest to you sometimes cannot tell the difference until you are much further through it than anyone realised.

You feel the emotional temperature of every room you enter and adjust to it automatically. This makes you extraordinary company. It also means you can lose track of what you actually feel versus what the room needed you to feel.